It bothers me how men are designed to "spread their seed" and how monogamy is a "choice" for them. Like for us women, we "want" to be with our man and only him. Yet, our man wants to have sex with every attractive woman but "can't" because he is in love. Like what the hell? This bothers me so much. I hate how my man gets sexually turned on by attractive women. I want him all to myself. I undersstand it isn't humanly possible, but it's enough to make me want to be single for the rest of my life.
Most Helpful Guy
well monogamy just as polygamy is a choice we all make. for some it may not feel like they have a choice but it is still a choice we make
it sounds to me like you just need to find a guy for whom monogamy is something they value. there are plenty of guys out there who want this, including myself.
it is definitely humanly possible for people to be monogamous and not cheat it's just a matter of finding that person. i know it can be difficult. i had two relationships in which girls cheated. it turned me off dating for a bit0
Most Helpful Girl
NO, MEN ARE NOT DESIGNED THAT WAY, just that asshole of yours might be as many other guys, but nah not all men, not most men for that metter so don't buy into that crap
look at it this way, would you like to date every guy that you find attractive, nice or make you feel you have connection w them or even give you butterflies? NO
same way if guys get turned on buy some girl it doesn't mean they want to fuck her
it's their body reacting but they are not their dick but rather their mind and heart0