For me I don't know why I do this to myself. However if I meet a girl that is extremely simple to date I just get bored.
Than I meet these girls that I will chase after for months and I always find it more rewarding when it works, but so fucking depressing when it doesn't. IE spending time, money, effort, and emotions on a girl that is just playing games with you and doesn't even plan on ever taking things further.
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Well I voted no but I do actually get that ones who are too easy and forward to get are boring. I'd prefer to have to work a little and get to know someone before we actually do anything, if there's no risk at all and I can tell she would do whatever I wanted on the first date it's just boring, and also it makes her seem too clingy and not independent enough.
But I find it annoying when someone doesn't show how they feel and I keep trying to contact them or go out with them, and they don't directly tell me no but also don't tell me how they feel. The ideal situation is when they make it known that they enjoy your company, but aren't willing to give in without you making an effort.1
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