why do guys only envy you if you have a hot girlfriend, and not if you have a cool/awesome but less attractive girlfriend? even if she has a great personality other guys only want her if that's on top of her being hot. like "she's hot AND she's smart and funny? you're so lucky."
If personality is more important than looks then?
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Not true... well, it is true for kids in HS, cause they don't really care much about other things than looks, and most girls don't offer much at that age, but when you grow older, if a guy has a friend with an amazing woman, he most likely will consider his friend to be lucky and would want a woman like that.
Looks will always matter, but as you get older, personality is what matters the most.2
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If you are fat and uglier than a turd you can have the best personality it simply isn't as important as looks, you have to be attracted to someone to want a relationship (at least I would) however there is a sort of a perfect ratio of looks and personality I'd take an 8 with a good personality over a 9 with ok personality.0
Looks for me. Yes, I'm that shallow.0