What are your "shallow" dealbreakers in a bf/gf?

Mine are small butt, small boobs/flat chest, more than 3 inches taller than me, thigh gap/skinny thighs, wide shoulders, no curves.

What are yours?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Fat, too short, no hair on head, hair on face, small hands, big feet, no muscles, ugly face, and crooked teeth.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Must have attached earlobes, hair must be strawberry blonde and at least 24 inches, must be an 11/10, must exert a force due to gravity less than 667 N, must be at least 1.524x10¹² picometers...

    Sarcasm, obviously. I couldn't care less what someone looked like. I don't believe in limiting my choices based purely on something someone was born with

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What Girls Said 20

  • I don't think it's shallow to have turn offs.

    I most likely wouldn't date a guy shorter than me or under 5'5/5'6" (I'm 5'2". And I did date someone like 2-3 inches taller and I hate to admit it but it was not ideal lol)
    Or a guy who is obese. A bit of chubbieness is okay, sometimes it's cute, but if he's fat it just isn't cute.
    Or a guy with really messed up teeth. They don't have to be perfect but super messed up teeth- I can't.
    Or a guy who is skinny. He doesn't have to be ripped but scrawniness is an even bigger turn off than being overweight.
    Or a guy with bad hygiene/horrible style.

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  • Lol if you're short you quite possibly described me 😂 Mine are:

    Overweight or obese
    Underweight
    Too "soft", basically an undefined body
    Bad hygiene
    Bad teeth
    Ugly/"rough-looking" hands/feet
    Bad hairstyle/grooming habits
    Poor fashion
    Too tall/short

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  • Not having a penis.

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  • Beer Belly and shorter than me

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  • lack of midface fullness (cheeks)
    nose that doesn't have a good shape
    eyes that don't have a good shape
    bald
    overweight
    beard

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  • Must be at least 5'7".
    Not fat or overweight.

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  • Must be taller than me
    No one fat or overweight

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  • I don't like guys with small, or soft hands.

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  • no O blood type, as an a/ab it wouldn't work well. brown eyes aren't appealing to me either. men that are mean are out the door. not a fan of large lats and traps. (looks weird). I like humble people

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  • Fat
    Bad hygiene

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  • Ouch I fit that description.
    Well for me it's fat, too pale, acne, smelly b. o.

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  • So basically you don't date supermodels?

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  • Nothing really

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  • overweight
    bad teeth
    bad hygiene
    dumb
    too much hair on back
    shorter than me

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  • Shorter than me, bad hygiene, beer belly, beard (on some guys can pull it off, and bald.

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  • Must not be shorter or skinnier than me.

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  • Short
    Fat
    Ugly lmao

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  • Nice question! It's incredibly stupid, but I wouldn't date a bald dude or a dude with bad teeth.
    Those are my only shallow deal-breakers I think.

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  • I call it stupid face... like their is just something about their face that just screams to you that their is absolutely nothing of use going on upstairs. Brainwashed eyes (you can usually see the whites all the way around their eyes and their natural resting face is an unnatural smile)... I am sure there are others but this is what came to me right away

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  • I'm not sexually attracted to really fat guys.

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What Guys Said 11

  • Super obese

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    • 2mo

      @reptocarl How is not wanting to date a girl who isn't going to be alive for that long shallow? How is not wanting to date a girl with health problems shallow?

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    • 2mo

      @reptocarl you and I clearly have different views on this. Agree to disagree.

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      @reptocarl although when I say it's selfless I am only referring to cases in which the other person's life is in danger. Otherwise, it's entirely selfish. And even though the action is selfless, it can still be taken for selfish reasons. For instance, if a guy had an obese girlfriend and told her to lose weight not because he didn't want to see her have health problems but because he didn't find her as attractive. That would be selfish.

  • 5"10 + or GTFO...
    DD+ cup size
    Flat stomach
    Non-pointy elbows
    Youthful glow
    Has to always smooth and hairless
    Educated
    Must be a future CEO 10k a day

    Fcking lol at dudes with no standards
    thoughtcatalog.files.wordpress.com/.../...ng-1.jpg

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  • Being taller than me I guess. But I've never had a real crush on any girl taller than me.

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  • www.court-records.net/.../miles-shrug(d).gif

    Wow... the most socially acceptable "shallow" dealbreakers here...

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  • Im not sure if I have any, can't think of any anyway.

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  • Not overweight, not taller than me, not have short hair, not have an ugly face.

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  • Same height

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  • Fattie and shaved twats, and hairy tits.

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  • Fat, basically

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  • Brown eyes. I want my girlfriend to have blue or at least green eyes.

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  • Those are your deal breakers? That's literally everything I like in a woman lol

    I guess mine would be a big nose, oily skin, overweight, a huge cellulite ass, pepperoni nipples, pancake boobs, etc.

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    • 2mo

      What are pepperoni nipples/pancake boobs lol

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    • 2mo

      @Popo21 lol I'm sorry! Hope I didn't offend you!

    • 2mo

      Haha no, it's okay :)

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