A guy I was seeing told me after 3 months that he doesn't like that I'm high maintenance.. fair enough but would you date a girl who is high maintenance but finances herself and doesn't ask for much but attention sometimes? My career is #1 in my life so I'm not demanding in relationships I just know what I want.
Like I'm not even sure that term should be used for me because I do it all myself. i'm literally just demanding when it comes to myself? He didn't like that I cared so much about my appearance, superficial things and having the best of what I want. Is that really all that bad?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't mind as long as she doesn't expect me to maintain. I actually appreciate high maintenance girls, cause they want the best and work for it, but I don't like what you said about being superficial, and I'd hope that in the future as we get closer together, I become your #1 and not your career. I want a family, and I would put my woman before my career in order to have her and the kids, but I can't do that if she thinks her career is more important than me.2
Most Helpful Girl
There are guys out there at will appreciate you enough to care about what ever you care about even if it's your clothes, designer purses. Then there's the guys that want material items for themselves and will not like high maintenance girls. So just date someone who is going to support/ appreciate you for who you are.0