So this guy I like he has been seeing a girl for a month and says he's getting attached. But, him and I have been teasing/flirting for several months and recently texting (before he told me about the other girl). So we recently went out with some friends and talked he said he's confused and ever since him and I have been texting he's been thinking about me. My question is, should I completely back off and leave him be with the girl he is seeing ( they are not official) or ask him on a date? he said the girl has 2 kids and I have none, but when I asked if he thought him and I would be more compatible because of that he was like "not necessarily, I like kids" what did he mean by that?
Most Helpful Guy
He meant he likes kids and it won't effect his decision. Sometimes we want to read more into something said that doesn't exist. Based on what you said, I would tell you to go for it. He left the door wide open for a reason and that is a good sign. Remember, this is his decision. Don't make your time together all about him making a choice. I would advise that if he keeps seeing this other girl after a while, you need to think about moving along. Many men like to see more than one lady and enjoy what they get from each one. To be totally honest with you, I think you have a player here and that never ends up good for anyone but him. His comments to you give me that feeling. Be careful. Only you can protect yourself form being hurt in the end. I wish you the best in whatever you decide!1
Most Helpful Girl
You say they're not official so go for it!1