I'm in college and I just can't score hookups I don't know wtf is wrong with me. I'm good looking and I'm ripped but everytime I try to make a move I fail. What's wrong with me? How do I do I fix this? It's ruining my College experience. All I want is to be able to get hookups but I keep failing. The one or 2 I actually did score were slutty chicks. WHY AM I SO FUCKING UNLUCKY? I SEE UGLY ASS MFS BRINGING HOME HOT GIRLS AND OF COURSE MY LUCK IS THAT I GET SHIT. I AM SO FUCKIN PISSED.
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Stop looking at it like "oh i can't get laid and I don't know why". Women can tell if you're just trying to get in their pants. Try making friends rather than potential sex partners.
I know there's this whole stigma behind "oh everybody has sex in college it's one big orgy". That's a bad assumption. The "ugly ass mfs" are likely comfortable with themselves. Being overbearing and needy doesn't sit well with women.
There's nothing wrong with you at all. What's wrong is your behaviours and thought processes. That can be corrected if you work at it. Be empathetic and see it from another person's perspective. Personally I know barely anything about random "hook-ups" because I don't understand the appeal. Sex isn't meaningless.
A charming overweight guy who likes himself will get the right girl tenfold compared to a muscular meathead with little appreciation or respect for how women look at courtship (I'm not saying you fit this category, hope it doesn't sound like that).
You sound really frustrated with this. My suggestion is to look at it another way. It's pointless to try something with little to no potential for success. Failure is a constant in the pursuit of success. There is no success without it.0
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