The guy I'm seeing says he doesn't want a relationship because he doesn't want the responsibility. (He has said he needs to buy a house & that, while "it will be twice as hard" to do so by himself, that's what he needs to do.) While I'm not rich, I now have a very decent state job. As for a relationship, I would not expect anything other than mutual love & support … & to be a part of each other's lives. (I certainly do not expect him to be my sugar daddy.) I would like some male insight on this.
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Responsibility = Keeping you happy and entertained. You + Him = His home paid with some of your $$$ which means he would lose his home if you split. Men have come to realize the trap that is woman; better to own our assets before getting involved with a woman who will take 1/2 of everything he has after they get together. IF he settles down after his home is bought and paid for, he won't lose his home if the woman decides to leave.2