If so, what were the main struggles of that relationship?
How did you overcome any feelings of confusion if the guy seemed distant/un-affectionate?
How did you communicate?
Did you end things? If so, why?
Have you chosen to stay with him, if so, why?
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No, actually never. I'm assumingn you are? People that have depression really can't think straight because they are in a gloom and in a fog. Please know it's not your fault or your boyfriend, just that depression. Is he in therapy? If he is, why don't you tag along too? I mean, even if he doesn't feel comfortable for u to be in the meeting maybe you can wait in the waiting room. That way you're still showing support. I fee as though that will help you communicate better as well. Because you're breaking down that wall that everyone tries to shield each other with. The only time it's absolutely nessary to end things is: you've tried it all. Example, therapy, medication, working it out and there is no results. And two, he or she is abusive mentally/physically. I wish you guys both of best of luck. I don't know what it's like to be with a guy with depression. I have depression myself, but usually therapy and support has helped greatly. If you need more advice don't hesitate to pm or something!1