I. Am. Confused.
This is the first time I've ever felt so strongly about anyone. And it's scary. I like him a lot, and he's so sweet. He hasn't made a move yet though, and it confuses me. Maybe I'm not attractive enough? But then why would he waste his time on me? Would he really be so sweet, kind and not try anything at all after two dates if he was just trying to get sex? I am a virgin, and we haven't had that talk, but I think he's aware of how inexperienced I am. I just assume that's a turnoff? I don't get the feeling that he's a player at all, he's very serious, ambitious and his personality is sooo attractive. I can't believe he hasn't been snatched up by any of the girls surrounding him yet. His confidence and charm is his forte, and it intimidates me at times. I feel quite dumb around him - and I'm known for being a rather smart girl. I am shy, and so I often don't know what to say when I'm around him which makes me feel even more insecure. It's just so confusing. I cannot get into my head what he sees in me. Guys, can you please share some thoughts?
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It's not uncommon for a person to feel like the person they are dating is out of their league. You like them so much and feel like they are perfect, but you have to tell yourself that you deserve this person too. You deserve the best. And who knows, this person could be having the same feelings about you and feel like you are out of his league. The fact that you've had two successful dates and things seem to be going well means that you mean something to him. As for him not making any moves, he could just be respecting your boundaries and is not trying to rush things.
Just relax and remain confident and he'll want to continue seeing you.3