My boyfriend (25 years old) of 2 years has become really annoying recently. We live together, and he has been grabbing my breasts, and asking for bjs and sex constantly, been calling me some rather "derogatory" names (as to initiate dirty talk)- and all of this non-stop! When I tell him to "stop", he says "you won't let me be myself", and then continues his behavior.
IS THIS NORMAL? WHAT IS GOING ON?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe it really is the 'real' him. If so, figure out if you can deal with that or not. Has anything else changed? Sex life been the same? No dry-spells or getting bored? Talk to him first (evenly and openly DO NOT be aggressive/condescending, that will shut down communication) and find out what about it he thinks is ok or is getting turned on by? Maybe something new to you could be exciting or at the least establish boundaries/rules. At that point, if agreeable terms can't be reached/respected, you might want to ask yourself if it's time to go.0
Most Helpful Girl
He got too comfortable and he probably thought it was okay. You need to really talk to him. Maybe find ways to spice things up for him so he won't be too agressive with his talk.0