So about 4 months ago my girlfriend left me and really broke my heart. I feel better now, but don't feel completely over her because I still think about her a lot. However I kinda have a crush on another girl now but am hesitant to try to get to know her better because I don't know if it'd be fair to her to be in a relationship and me not being completely over my last girlfriend. It wouldn't be just a rebound because I'm actually legitimately interested in her, but I really, really liked my previous girlfriend and even though she doesn't want to be with me I'd be lying if I said I didn't still have feelings for her. Should I pursue a possible relationship or should I wait it out and see it I get over my last relationship first?
Most Helpful Girl
Are you at the point where you still about your ex but know that it would be unhealthy for you to get back with her... then yeah get to kow someone else... if you'd drop the new girl if the old girl came back then your not ready for anything serious. I had a ex that was not a good fit so I had to move on. We are still friends 13years later... when I first got together with my now husband it was because I knew I couldn't go back, I needed to move on. It was hard to move on when he tried to get me back but I knew at that point that it was done and I couldn't and wouldn't do it anymore.1
Most Helpful Guy
You should wait until you're healed. I'm gonna sound like a giant hypocrite but last month I got my heart broken by a girl I wasn seeing. We weren't official but she used me as a rebound and then tossed me aside like garbage. It hurt like hell. I started seeing some other girls now but I'm not completely over the last girl.
Rebounding is contagious I feel.1
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