I got to know this guy in March this year. He's a waiter at a very exclusive restaurant I go to when I'm on vacation. We've been texting a bit and this summer I came back to his city. Me and my friends were sure that he'd invite me for a date.
His behaviour was obvious: Always smiling, searching for contact and every evening he wrote me messages. He's rather a shy guy. To make it easier for him to ask me out I dropped some hints and gave him good opportunities. But nothing came back. So I returned home and wrote him after some days a message he didn't reply to. I wrote that I was still waiting for the cake he promised to me (it was quite a humorous little message).
I had some theories why he didn't ask me out but from a boy's point of view it might be different. Does he feel intimitated by me? Or does he fear a long distance relationship? Or are there other reasons?
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1) he could have found someone else
2) Isn't sure how much you like him. Girls can say things that guys take the wrong way. You might have said something that you thought was a green light that he took as a red. I have a long boring story of that exact think happening to me.1
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