I used to pursue her full throttle at the beginnig as she used to play hard to get and was mysterious. After she warmed up to me and reciprocate my effort by sometime asking me out. I noticed there are things I don't like so I wanted to slow down while dating a few others.
On her birthday she tried to play it cool without mentioning it's her birthday. She just wanted to see me for like 1 hr. I said to her I can't and and made some friendly jokes.
She replied no problem, chat later. I haven't heard from her it's been almost 3 weeks. Shouldn't she be trying to get my attention?
Most Helpful Girl
She probably is waiting for YOU to contact her, or she is trying to move on as she realized you were subtly telling her that you are not that into her by not acknowledging her birthday. You also said you were dating a few others, which you might have send off a vibe that you were a player or some sort.
If there are things you don't like about her why do you care if she contacts you? Shouldn't you be happy that she is gone?1
Most Helpful Guy
Wow! Man, first you try dating other girl while talking with her (making you a womanizer) , second you told her on HER BIRTHDAY! That you can't see her and you are waiting for her to contact you! Seriously! You totally told her (without saying it) that you were not that interested in her and what is this she has things you don't like every person has it's flaws either you like it or not so it's for you to make the first step now. So go for it2