I am feeling like this is it for my life. Is there more to do? Are my expectations too high?
I went to college, got a job, bought my own place, bought a car.
I have traveled a couple times, tried new things, fell in love with a girl that didn't want me.
So apart from never having a girlfriend ( I just am shy and haven't really found someone who accepts me)
I feel like this is it for my life... This is my ceiling, sure I could go buy a nice car, nicer house, travel more etc.
But it there a point?
I didn't really find a passion in life, and don't think there is one for me.
My friends are just busy with their own lives now.
I honestly just work, eat, play on my phone for a bit, come onto this site, and then go to sleep and do it again.
Sure, if there is an event or something I'll check it out... but that's about it... I hate drinking, clubbing and partying... but I also hate staying home on a Friday night...
I guess I am just bored? I don't see a point to anything anymore... I am just waiting 30 years until retirement now.
What are things that motivate you and make you happy? and How can I do that?
Most Helpful Girl
First, no this is not it for u. U have a long life ahead of u. U might meet your future wife/mother of your kids tomorrow or 4 months from now. U might discover something that ur actually super passionate about & enjoy doing.
Second, I think u should actually be thankful for your life. Just yesterday I was feeling a little down for being in my 20's, still living at home & still going to college but I decide to just be thankful instead of letting that get me down. I hope u can do the same.
Third, happiness have to come from within. I've learned that a long time ago and I still have to remind myself that from time to time. Don't look to things or people to make u happy. The fact that God wakes u up every morning and protect u throughout the day & night is a blessing (Not sure if u believe in God or not. Ain't tryna offend ya)1