i've had little to no girl complement me, or had a crush on me or sum, i'm kinda fat tbh (i think i'm ok ) but in general it's obvious "ugly" or lesser desirable men would have to try harder to get a girl but when we say try harder, what sort of things should we be doing?
Most Helpful Girl
I think confidence is key. Be yourself. You don't have to be the next David Beckham or swimsuit model to win over girls. Although we girls can be shallow primitive creatures, we see the good inside of men. I say find a girl who will not judge based on your looks. It may take some time but in the end it will be worth it.0
Most Helpful Guy
it's all about confidence. if you believe it (whatever 'it" is) so will they
this works both ways-if you think you're an ugly loser, so will they. if you think you're a goddamn marvel of modern science... so will they.
I'm not very good looking (well I get told I am by women... but only after they've gotten to know me), I don't think I am... yet I get lots of pretty girls. If my current g/f dumped me, I could probably get laid the same night and I know 3 girls lined up for me, all exes. Not because I'm uber handsome or some shit, I don't have a fancy car. But I know I'm a prize-and sometimes it takes a while for them to notice, but I don't really care as I never focus on one girl unless she's my girlfriend. Sooner or later... any girl I'm talkin to gets interested. So lesson: Learn to really like yourself, and women start appearing. it's just that simple.1