I need ideas for how I'm going to ask out my college crush.
15d I haven't talked to this guy much at all. Just casual, "is the homework due?" type things.
11d I talked to him today after class and it felt pretty awkward. I asked him what his next class and the then asked if I could walk with him. He said he didn't care. We had a very brief conversation after I asked him if he played an instrument. He was pretty quiet and we were silent pretty much until we got to his class and I looked back at him and chuckled nervously and said "Later" and he didn't say anything. I don't know if he was shy or just really didn't want to talk.
I'd just like the girl to come right out and say she's interested and not mess around to much with dropping hints and all that stuff. A little flirting or whatever is fine to see if he kinda plays along but its just better tell him so he knows for a fact you are interested and not playing games. Just strike up a conversation, maybe look for a moment where it makes sense to touch his arm or something, and if he kinda seems into you just be like "hey I kinda like you, do you wanna do something this weekend" or something to that effect in your own words and see what he says.
Just be straightforward about it. I do not care about how much that we knew each other or talked. If a girl is truly confident enough to ask me out, I would respect her confidence and accept the date. Afterwards, if the connection gets better, then we'll just fuck. ;) ;)
The only thing that would be awkward to me is some girl, I don't really know, walking up to me, and asking me out. If I know her enough, If I've talked to her enough times, then I don't really care how she does it. If I don't know her, then I will say no regardless of what she looks like.
just be forward about what you want and feel. ask questions like "do you have a girlfriend?, do you like me, or am i pretty if he finds you attractive that means he likes you. and ask if you could be his girlfriend? or how ever you want to say it. its so easy and soo simple.
Just ask him to go do something with you, and if he mentions the word date, tell him it is one or you'd like it to be. If you can't be that bold, start hanging around with him a little more often, and be touchy-feely. Touch his arm, grab his hand, etc.
I had a girl in high school - we liked each other and I didn't know, bought prom tickets and said "I really like you, and I was hoping you'd go to prom with me, and I already got us tickets."
I think she caught me checking her out and finding reasons to hang out with her because we shared after school activities.
I don't mind as long as a girl tells me. Whatever she tells me either being straightforward " I like you" or "Lets go out together" etc doesn't make a difference, if I like the girl too I go for it. We become so happy when girls ask out us