Do men not feel the need to not settle down if they are not established.
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This is an excellent question which in my opinion I am highly qualified to answer. I'm 46 and haven't come close to settling down and I am enjoying my life a lot although I miss not having a partner. The answer for me is , yes I would settle down if I met someone i really got on with and who had a lot of common interest so I could do many of the things I like to do together. What I wouldn't do is settle down for the sake of settling down NO MATTER how pretty the girl is. It's quite possible I would start red flags and alarm bells going like mad in potential partners. But I think I can safely say I speak for quite a few men in their 30s and 40s and 50s. This is the modern world and settling down to a 9-5 job and having 2.5 kids isn't everybody's idea of an idyllic lifestyle these days. So to sum it up yes we could settle down anytime but we don't settle down with anyone just for the sake of it.0