Can someone help me with my boy problem? Sorry kinda long. Need some serious help?

I like this guy. Usually I go for the total douche bags and the guys who don't take care or themselves or will be anything, because I have no self esteem. I'm 20 full time college student trying to get my associates for social work. He's 20 a volunteer firefighter, EMT and a security guard. He's popular I'm not. He calls my friends trash.. I'm not usually shy around guys but I am him! I've been avoiding him because I think he's to good for me. My parents hate everyone but love him. I texted him and he drove 15 Miles to see me at 9:00-12:00. When he had to work at 5am. He told me he would come today at 7:00 but he didn't. Last night my friend kept pushing me toward him till eventually gave in and just hugged him for 25 minutes. He didn't seem to mind. But instead of being my shy self I was myself last night. Dorky. He finally got to know who I was. He texted me for maybe an hour when I woke up. We don't have much in common but I like him. He says he's likes me too. He calls me pretty a lot. Does he not like me? Did he not like who I really am? Was the hug to much? Why didn't he come over like he said he would? Was I right, I'm not good enough?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • just got for it girl, stop putting yourself down, he obviously likes you, whether or not he's just going for sex I don't know, just make sure he's down for a relationship tho

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    • 1mo

      Thank you :) I hope your right and I hope he's not using me for sex. Nothing has happened so far.

What Guys Said 1

  • He likes you. As for why he didn't come... just ask him. Maybe he had to work, maybe he forgot. Go for it.

    Don't let him talk shit on your friends though. Bros before hos works for girls too.

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What Girls Said 1

  • He probably likes you back.

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