A guy I met online (through a dating site we live several hours apart) was going to be traveling through this week and wanted to meet up. I told him I would be working that day, and would need to see if I could change my schedule and would love to meet up. He told me he will just make a trip to meet me at a later time. Why didn't he want me to see if I could get off work?
Why wouldn't he want me to change my schedule?
What Guys Said 2
He just doesn't want to be too much trouble for you. I would not expect someone to change their work schedule either. A lot of companies and businesses frown upon people doing that, so he is just concerned you might get into trouble for that, or they might give you a hard time later.1
He didn't want to inconvenience you its almost definitely that simple don't overthink it. I mean he was the one who asked you if you had time first.0
What Girls Said 4
He may have Thought you were Making up some Excuse and Could have Gotten... Super thinned skinned. It happens Online Sometimes when you Don't really Know one another, haven't Met up yet.
Smooth things over by trying to do something to 'Change my Schedule.'
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Because you were going to be at work... ... so he thought you probably shouldn't be asking to change your schedule incase you cause problems.
Or he doesn't want you to take him too seriously. If you're going out of your way to meet him he might think you are too available/keen.0
Maybe he didn't want to bother you or force things.0
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