What would you do if the person you're talking to, fucks someone else? C. Other
I wouldn't give a shit because I would most likely be fucking others too. I see no reason to get concerned about who a dude fucks as in my opinion trusting a dude to keep his dick to one person is laughable. Guys seem incapable of doing that once in a relationship I find it illogical to trust or believe a guy would do so outside a relationship. Hence why I insist on condoms as I go by "you don't know where that dick has been".
I probably would Feel very Bad and Sad and just sort Of... Distance Myself. Knowing that he is Getting a Piece of Tail from another, he isn't Into Someone who may Want just a Nice boyfriend, not even Serious one but someone who May be More in the Future. Good luck and Great question, @AleDeEurope xx
well usually at first I d be honest about the situation like make it clear to both of us. are we exclusive or we can date around lol usually when I date anw, I date several dudes together like that I don t catch feelings and stay distracted. so I wouldn t mind. I dunno how to explain it lol. it s really relative. maybe with someone you ll have a coup de foudre both of you, and it ll be exclusive from the start and with others you re just testing the waters and having a good time. XD
I wouldn't care too much, but i'd ask for a decision on where we stood right there and then. If she was still "unsure" then while she wouldn't be cut off, she'd have to be the one to arrange dates and things thereafter.
This is why you shouldn't catch feels early or straight up ask them out exclusively the moment you do.
I would proceed as long as they maintained interest. When there are no commitments, no rules are broken. Be grateful they told you. Most people hide that stuff. Either she is being very open and honest as a potential love interest, or you are friendzoned.
This happened to me most recently and I had sex with the girl. It was our 3rd date and I found out she was having sex with other guys as there was an empty condom wrapper in her bed that I noticed right before we had sex. I mean its not cheating but I still felt really shitty because she invited me to her place that day and into her bed.
I couldn't say much about it because we werent official but I was still hurt as she was asking to hang out more the week before it and led me on hardcore. She ended up ditching me which felt shitty.
It's happened to me, and although we lost contact I've forgiven her. The reason: she had met the other person physically and he got along very well with her kid. I couldn't blame a young mom for a wise decision, although the click between us was great and I would still love to be with her today.
Good luck with that... If she's at the point were she "likes me" and she's still fucking other people, and telling me about it then she has an entirely different idea of what "like" means then I do. We're on different pages, so it's not going to work out for more than a quick fuck. She'd be relegated to a potential booty call.