So I recently have considered meeting people online and I was wondering if anyone could share experiences they have had using Tinder. ☺
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I just started 2 weeks ago. I put on my profile 'looking to date... im too old (fashioned) for this hookup malarky'.
Some guys clearly don't read it though. I asked one guy for a coffee and he was like 'a coffee and then what ;) ;)' and I was like 'well I'm only looking to date so... a coffee and a hobnob buiscuit?' Never heard back haha.
I went on a date with one guy and he was really nice and respectful but lives too far away so doubt that's going anywhere.
Then I went on a date with another guy which was fine but in response to a joke about something he goes 'nah I have a small penis' and I just thought-'way to ruin a date'.
I had two other date offers that I cancelled/postponed because I'm not actually that keen on them. Sometimes tinder doesn't show you all the photos until you've both liked each other. Then when you get more angles you realise he has a squint nose or something xD
Also, there's a lot of guys just seem to want to chat. Like you'll say 'lets grab a coffee when you're free' and they will be like 'sure' but it never gets arranged... but they still keep messaging you every day and u just think-pft timewaster.
I think all you can do is give it a try and just be firm with whatever it is that you want.
I have one date coming up and I literally just said to him about how everyone just seems to want to chat and he was like 'id meet you in a heartbeat' so we'll see how that goes.
So yeah, plenty of opportunity but some of it comes to nothing and a lot of men only after one thing no matter what you say probably.
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