Who should drive for the first meeting?

If you are meeting someone for the first date that lives 3 hours away who should be the one to drive to meet them? (Especially when there isn't much in between)

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1mo Well it seems the men say the guy should. I suppose I will just sit here and wait for him to decide to come up.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't know if there's a definitive answer. If I were meeting a woman for the first time I would definitely do the driving.

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    • 1mo

      See it seems he wants to. Which is fine, though I don't mind driving to meet him. I feel maybe his driving to meet me is anot old fashioned thing (and I'm not about to ruin that for him).

Most Helpful Girl

  • The one who has a car. Or if both have cars the one who asked out the other person.

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What Guys Said 2

  • If you don't know each other I think meeting half-way would be the best thing to do personally.

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    • 1mo

      There is literally nothing but a farm between us. As in a farm you can see how it works, but it's a lot of country the road to travel between us.

    • 1mo

      If there's no town to meet at in the middle then he should be the one driving to see you, at least I would insist on driving there.

  • im old fashioned so would insist it was me. besides 3hrs driving is a short run to me as i drive a 4000mile round trip regularly

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What Girls Said 1

  • Maybe meet in the middle somewhere.

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