I am a socially awkward guy. I have strong symptoms of Social Communication Disorder. I would say I am not completely socially backward but to a degree where it is fairly noticeable, and can be noticeable at some times more than others. But yeah, if I was physically very attractive to you, whether that be muscle, or height, or looks, if I was physically attractive but still socially awkward, would you still be attracted/willing to date? I did ask this on other forums but it was mostly guys and a lot of them said no, they wouldn't without social skills. So wanted to get girls' opinions. thank.
Most Helpful Girl
Would you date a guy/be attracted to him if he was good looking and aesthetic but socially awkward?
Nope. I find when guys call themselves socially awkward or use socially awkward to label other guys they generally mean rapey/creepy. Shit ton of rapey/creepy behavior seemingly gets dismissed with socially awkward- dude kisses you after you said no "Socially awkward"... coworker you see in passing used the company files to find your number and is blowing up your phone then drives to your house after you tell him to stop "Socially awkward". Most reactions calling it creepy is answered with 'he probably didn't know better'.. not like there is common sense not some hard social skills that if a gal didn't give you her number it's probably creepy to look for it and text her.
It seems for most dudes socially awkward isn't shy, anxious, nervous, or clueless unaware of social cues/context. It often seems to mean intentionally breaking boundaries and when called out on it being immensely defensive.
I'm not interested in that.0
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Most Helpful Guy
If girl then sure😂0