By absolute, I mean no friends, no social group, spends all time alone if given the choice unless it is a duty for career. And I also mean girls that choose to be loners because they love being alone and not with others (not social outcasts because of a bad personality flaw or something).
I would marry you. I love girls like you. I am like you have few close friends and work hard to achieve my dreams. I just need a girl to be dedicated to. I am loyal to the few people around me and I will be loyal to my girl too. (and I am not ugly and I have great body. I want to make this clear because when I say I am loyal over forums people laugh and say only ugly people are loyal). I give my life for my 3 best male friends and would do the same for the girl of my choice
No. The only requirements that men have to date women is base, acceptable attractiveness and not being a complete bitch. And even if they are a complete bitch, sometimes that's okay. Men are very simple when it comes to this, but everyone tries to make it complicated. Really. Whatever men say about personality and whatever other requirements, they are either lying or deluded. They say that, because they want to copy women in order to be more attractive to women and say, "Look. I like the same things as you. Fuck me. Now."
Those might be *preferences*, but it matters 0% in their ultimate decision. All that matters is attractiveness. For a longer-term relationship, personality and compatibility become a factor. But just for the initial choice, literally the only thing that matters is that he is at least *somewhat* attracted to her physically. Everything else is just icing on the cake.
Women are the ones who look at social circles and isolation as big no-no factors. And a loooooot of other shit.
Facts is facts and rats is rats: More friends, more circles, more social outings, more parties, more events, is more opportunities to either cheat on me or else find some other man to leave me for. So why would I want to date a popular girl with all kinds of friends and social circles and the nightlife and what have you? Girls like that tend to be the type also where they think having fun means spending money, and spending money means having fun. "Oh, wine me and dine me, that means love. Love means pretending we're celebrities!" That shit gets so old, so fast.
I prefer it because im the same way, and when a girl has lots of friends and goes out a lot its harder to relate. But she has to not be too clingy too, a lot of people like this end up being too clingy.
Yes, her not having friends or any social activities outside of work would be a red flag to me. It would mean her whole social life would revolve around me and that would be quite suffocating. There's also a huge chance she's downright creepy/socially inept (the same reason women tend to stay away from loner men).
I'm fairly introverted outside of automotive related stuff. I don't mind a girl that also introverted. At the same time her focus should not be me 24/7. Just like I have my own interests she should as well.