Reason why I ask is beacause about 2.5 years ago i was in a long term relationship with my ex. We had been dating for 4 years and a half at that time and she complained so much about her not having guy friends and how i had so many female friends and it wasn't fair. So i told her to go find new friends since she was in college. One day she told me she did and gave her number to a guy that dhe kept bumping into in her school, when she told me that she did that i got mad and told her not to talk to him and why she would even do that. Also, other friends have told me that they would never let their gf/bf get a friend. Usually we find that as a thread no? Even if you trust him/her.
So, is it me or is it ok for your bf/gf to make new friends?
- Yes, of course it is!Vote A
- No, it is not ok!Vote B
Thank you all for the comments though!
Most Helpful Girl
Yes of course. I mean what if you had a bisexual partner, I don't think they can like stop being friends with everyone cause they're attracted to both sexes 😂 I just apply the same concept to hetero relationships.
People can be friends no matter the gender 🙄9
Most Helpful Guy
It's ok... IF it is totally known that the intentions of the "new friend" are completely platonic.
If there is any ambiguity there, the partner needs to proverbially put their foot down.2