i am a middle eastern and i am proud but i dont agree so much with with arabs or muslim community about some stuff and i dont want a girl from muslim or arabic family... i didn't live in america or uk but i am so cultured and my English is good as a native ( i know its hard to believe but its true ) its mostly mixed between British and American and maybe a little irish... i lived my life in qatar but i was born in iraq and carry its citizenship but i dont really feel belonging to iraq. now i study in ukraine and arabs here have really bad reputation here and i even feel ashamed to call myself an arab or musim here cuz of the bad reputation... i want to live in English speaking country in the future... i struggle so much to date cuz of my ethnicity i think and i am a virgin and its making me depressed cuz its unfair.. and these are some a pics of me
i dont care about stereotypes... and i dont judge because of his origins
i would get back or cut his advances politely
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Girls, please think about it and be honest. if a guy like this was interested in u then you discovered he is middle eastern what will you do? B. I would get back or cut his advances politely
I don't find the guy attractive and his culture is unappealing to me. He may disagree with the culture or aspects of it but to me that doesn't necessarily mean his family done and to me that may be a source of conflict/discomfort.
"i even feel ashamed to call myself an arab or musim here cuz of the bad reputation" Nope the fuck out of that. I highly suggest getting over racial and cultural shame. This in my view is seriously unhealthy.
"i struggle so much to date cuz of my ethnicity i think and i am a virgin and its making me depressed cuz its unfair.. and these are some a pics of me" This in my view is also seriously unhealthy. Dating and having sex is not about 'fairness'. A gal doesn't owe you a date or sex. A gal can turn you down for whatever reason she wants. You may dislike it but that doesn't make it 'unfair' since dating/sex is about mutual interest/desire.
Your English is regular. Not too shabby not amazing. You call yourself a muslim but you said you disagree with most of the religion, so are you really a muslim? Also, girls don't reject you because of race if you live in a country where they are the same ethnicy.
I think it's really sad that you have to explain yourself as if to try to cater more to what women are looking for in a guy. Whether you speak English or not, whether you live in a certain place or not, whether or not you relate to your culture, etc., the only thing that should matter is how well you treat people.
When you said you feel ashamed sometimes becuase of who you are, it hit home. There are various races on the planet that are not ideal or are looked down upon, and if a person is stupid enough, they'll believe all members of that race are the same.
Being a black woman was never easy. It's exhausting, frankly. However, I think I have the upper hand sometimes becuase when people look at me and expect me to act a certain way, and I prove them wrong, they're surprised, and I would like to think I've instilled some time of learning lesson for them to not judge people right away.
You seem very likable to me. The only thing I'd worry for is how you'd treat me, and I worry about that for anyone else.