yes or no, please state why
Most Helpful Guy
No. That is how a little boy would think. A man can help you carry your bag and even buy tampons if you need them1
Most Helpful Girl
No of course not. If my hands are full or if I need to go to the bathroom and there is no where to put my purse I don't see what the problem is.
A secure man would not care what others thought of them any way. I believe only insecure men would feel people would see them as gay for holding the purse of a friend, mother, sister, girlfriend, or wife.1