My boyfriend of 9 months told me he is still unsure if he can commit to being with me forever because we'd had fights and he said he's unsure if we can make each other happy. He says he wants to be with me and he wouldn't if he didn't but I'm confused is it normal to have doubts like that after 9 months or a red flag to get out?
Most Helpful Guy
yeah it is in fact people who think like that end up getting married and they become the old couple that tells each other off in public. lol they have no real shame if you ask me. but thats what ends up happening to people who act like he is with you.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you've had issues, and if you haven't found a resolution, yes it is normal to doubt your relationship. This is the wakeup call to either shape up or ship out. Relationships are constant work, it isn't all effortless pleasure. So you have to either start working to make it work or leave.0