I was seeing a guy for a few months things got complicated due to distance and today he text me saying that long distance relationships don't work for him but he's happy to catch up for a drink one of these days.
What the hell? Why would he want to meet me knowing I have feelings for him and he doesn't want to be with me? Is he just saying that to soften the blow? If it was you would you meet up with him?
Very few long distance relationships work. He is probably telling you the truth. I have two friends who started out as a relationship thing. It was to complicated and wasn't working. We both decided to be friends. It is possible it is a cop out, but why go there unless you ask him.
I have been in situations like this. Leave it alone. He wants you to be on his time only. I can assure you that after he meets with you for drinks you won't hear from unless when he feels like it. Dont waste your time with this.
He still wants to try to be friends. But its clearly up to you. If you can't handle that then just move on. Its not to soften the blow because he wouldn't have just text you about how LDR doesn't work for him. Its nothing wrong, he told you his honest answer. It was a friendly gesture, but if you can't control your feelings then just tell him you can't do it anymore and drop him. BUT make sure that this is what you want to do. Because the moment you make this choice, you can't go back to him. There has to be some sort of compromise. Those are his terms. And if you don't want that, don't be in a relationship with him of any kind.
of course. I'd still talk to them but I'd actually treat them like trash. :) like i have a way of insulting people indirectly so that's whatcha get. for rejecting someone as awesome as myself. (acts arrogant but rlly isn't please don't hate)
A very similar situation happened to me with a guy I like and it hurts ause he was very kidn with me when we met we even made out and hit it off so quickly right after we met, he seemed he was interested in me. But things got also complicated and he assumed I was hitting on him or coming onto him or that I wanted something serious when he did not want anything serious so he told me he was not interested in a relationship only to be friends. In my case he never offered me to catch up for drink gram something in the future he just said he only wanted to be friends. I was kind of bummed because we got along so easily and right away right after we met, He seemed interested in finding out more about myself he enve share with me personal and intimate details of his family and himself, why he would do that anyway if he know he was just leading me on.
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