So I went on 4 awesome dates with this guy. He always talked about other dates, etc. I met some of his friends, hung out and stuff. He admitted to liking me, and I did him. He said he was really bad at texting so I really didn't worry and he works like 5a-7p m-f. Well anyways, he had made plans with me 2 times and kind of blew me off. I was annoyed so I just told him I was confused. He never responded to that. It's been a week and I really like him even as just a friend, so I text him about how he was doing. He was all excited and was like "hey you! what have you been up
to?" So now I'm like, he could of text me all week, and then I text him thinking he was over it, but is he?
Most Helpful Guy
Who knows. Sounds like he's got some others on the go. Or you're not high priority on his list maybe. It's like girls with guys (in all seriousness). It seems like we think differently, and we do in a sense, but reasons for not being always available for whoever are usually the same for both sexes. Either he's not as interested in you as you are for him, he's got some other girls on the go, he's busy with other things and isn't interested in anything serious or pursuing anything right now, or he's a mental case and is just flighty. Or, he wants you to do the chasing. Whatever the case, ask him out for a casual evening or coffee or movies or hook up or whatever, then if he blows you off again, then put him on the back burner and move on. Once he sees you haven't gotten back to him in a while and he does truly like you, he'll come around like he didn't know why you didn't call him or whatever. It's all games if you ask me.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm sure he's busy or too lazy to text because he just told you he was a bad texter.0