One guy wants a casual relationship with no strings because he lives abroad (he's invited me on some weekend trips in Europe). The other guy lives in my country and is boyfriend material. He's a lovely guy who I can imagine being happy with. I don't want to wait around for this guy to decide when he wants to date me for real (at the moment we're just friends but he suggested he might want more when he's less busy) when I could be having some fun with the other guy. Help!!!
Most Helpful Guy
Ok here's how things work. If I meet a woman that instantly triggers That part of my brain I wouldn't care if I had every single day filled with work from 8 am to 8pm. I would FIND the time for her and definitely so if she feels the same way.
You don't want to wait nor should you!! Time's a wasting!!0
Most Helpful Girl
It's kind of shades of gray... as you move down the scale, you use your better judgment. I would stop seeing the second guy a couple weeks before becoming exclusive... just out of respect. It shows that you are sincere about him, and him alone.0