Am I being a jerk by "ghosting" on this guy?

I am being pursued by a guy in his mid 40s who has never held a job for more than a few months & whom I am not physically attracted to.

I grew up in a family that taught me to NEVER hurt anyone's feelings (& to basically keep people happy) & that doing so was rude (at best) & selfish.

Updates:
1mo I've learned from a friend that he's always lived off women while refusing to help around the house.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • No, you not! He's a loser!

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What Guys Said 3

  • Ghosting would still hurt his feelings. Just tell him you're not interested and move on.

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  • Yes, just explain to him you're not interested. Don't leave him hanging.

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  • Just let him know that you can be no more than a friend to him this way it won't lead him on.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Just tell him you're not interested.

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