I feel it's a waste of time for guy's, women are too picky online and then they never find anybody because they're expecting mr perfect. This is just me but online dating is bullshit, but should guy's just meet a girl in person rather than on a dating site?
I'm sorry but i had to post this because it's true.
Most Helpful Girl
I would agree with most of the other girls. Some of the guys can be quite crazy and I have been online dating for a long time and I ensure you 90% of the guys I even talk to are not appropriate for me. Plus I don't go for hot guys and I don't think that is the case for many others - I go for my type and also look at how the guy displays himself in his photos and choose from there ie:
shirtless photos - wants nothing but sex, a bad idea and not particularly a fun conversation.
photos with animals - a manipulative trick but still gets me every time.
photos of a group of people - they might be hiding something and is an automatic no.
photos of cars - don't bother
photos of anything but their face - don't bother
guy in a suit - automatic yes because it means this guy seems classy.
making silly face - think their normal face is either ugly or are a funny person
Sometimes I go for guys that may not be amazingly attractive in my books if they have a humourous photo.
This is all of the examples I can think of and some girls may think differently about my points so keep that in mind :).
However don't be upset that girls choose who they want - they are allowed to. If you want to be chosen then simply change your profile a bit. Most of the time it is something in the way you present yourself that makes them say no.
But please don't be angry about it - because that mostly means you have your own insecurities and everyone does. What I am saying is - there is no point nor need to get upset about it because no matter what you are going to do, it is going to inevitably happen.
Most Helpful Guy
Online there's options, but that lends itself to pickiness. You're less likely to get attention online.
Offline it's hard to ignore someone speaking directly to you but you'll have to adapt to the situation, it can really backfire hard, reflect badly on you and it's going to string a lot more if it goes south, which we all know chances are that it will.
Lose-Lose. It's rough.0