There was a guy I was REALLY into. We went to the same school but I never talked to him because I was shy. When I finally did talk to him things were going well at first then I told him I was into him and he rejects me and even said some pretty harsh things. A couple of days ago my friend says he's texting her but she ignored it. I honestly dont believe that for a second! She has been texting me lately and I have just been ignoring her because I'm really mad he rejected me then went after her. This is not the first time this has happened with my female friends and it TRULY PISSES ME OFF to the point where I dont even want to be their friends anymore. Also the reason why most of my friends are guys. Why does this always happen? I feel like I'm never going to get a guy because they all for some reason go after my friends.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, I'd say that it won't be healthy for you to be mad because your Crush likes someone else, there's much happiness ahead for you, let this be an experience from which you can learn and grow, does it suck to see someone you like with someone else? Of course, but don't let blind you to the good things in life, there are guys out there who would be happy to take you out... Lastly don't blame your friends for being attractive, and if they are not being loyal to you, then choose your friends more carefully, don't give up!!1
Most Helpful Girl
It's not her fault that he rejected you and is going after her. Please do not take this out on your friend. She is being a good friend by not talking to him. She isn't doing anything wrong here.
As to why this happens all the time. The only thing I can think of is that you are just meeting guys who are just not into you. Unfortunately that happens. We all go through periods like this in our lives.
The best thing to do is move on. This guy obviously doesn't like you so it's not worth worrying about. There are plenty of guys out there who will want to date you. Just go out and try to meet as many people as possible.0