There was a guy I was REALLY into. We went to the same school but I never talked to him because I was shy. When I finally did talk to him things were going well at first then I told him I was into him and he rejects me and even said some pretty harsh things. A couple of days ago my friend says he's texting her but she ignored it. I honestly dont believe that for a second! She has been texting me lately and I have just been ignoring her because I'm really mad he rejected me then went after her. This is not the first time this has happened with my female friends and it TRULY PISSES ME OFF to the point where I dont even want to be their friends anymore. Also the reason why most of my friends are guys. Why does this always happen? I feel like I'm never going to get a guy because they all for some reason go after my friends.
Guy I Like Rejects Me But Is Now Texting My Friend. What Do I Do? Why Does This Always Happen?
What Guys Said 14
Well, I'd say that it won't be healthy for you to be mad because your Crush likes someone else, there's much happiness ahead for you, let this be an experience from which you can learn and grow, does it suck to see someone you like with someone else? Of course, but don't let blind you to the good things in life, there are guys out there who would be happy to take you out... Lastly don't blame your friends for being attractive, and if they are not being loyal to you, then choose your friends more carefully, don't give up!!1
I don't know what to say...
Why do you care so much?
Its important to be honest with yourself and NOBODY belongs to you. As a guy this is the FIRST thing we learn. Women like it when we're distant doesn't matter how good a guy you are.
Maybe your friend is giving out the goods?1
Agreed = ALWAYS
as we continue to be used as a social ladder & network for shoppers
Best for me to DO NOTHING else only harm myself or pay into others' web of lies to serve their goals. With this, I would use my free time to shop for a replacement should he drop the bomb on me w/o warning someday.0
Firstly that fucking sucks
Secondly take this as a win for you. No beartbreak dealing with this guy in a relationship.
Thirdly don't ignore your friend. See what happens first. She should have common sense to say to him no because he moved on from her friend instantly to her.0
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Well if he rejected you, move on. As far as him going after your friend, does he know that you're friends? I'm sure it's not a personal attack.
As to why this always happens, it's hard say. Perhaps you come on to strong, or perhaps the guy (s) are already interested in someone else.
I had a situation once where I was into a girl. My group of friends and her group of friends hung out, and I put in considerable effort to give her extra attention (asking about her day/week, buying the occasional drink, etc). When I did finally ask her out (to lunch no less), she told me couldn't because her friend liked me.
Her friend was raging maniacal alcoholic and could not drive a car to save her life. And she did drugs (I was in the military at time).
When I told the girl I had zero interest in the friend, she told me I was not dating material since I wouldn't give the friend a chance. I just proceeded on.0
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You could try and set him up0
i would take you out.0
Move on... you're not his type0
What Girls Said 6
It's not her fault that he rejected you and is going after her. Please do not take this out on your friend. She is being a good friend by not talking to him. She isn't doing anything wrong here.
As to why this happens all the time. The only thing I can think of is that you are just meeting guys who are just not into you. Unfortunately that happens. We all go through periods like this in our lives.
The best thing to do is move on. This guy obviously doesn't like you so it's not worth worrying about. There are plenty of guys out there who will want to date you. Just go out and try to meet as many people as possible.0
If it is not meant to be then it is not meant to be. Things happen for a reason my dear. Don't be mad at your friend because he is texting her. If you are truly her friend you will want her to be happy. Friends last a lifetime. Guys come and go. He could also be doing this on purpose to be a dick to you. Some guys get off on doing mean stuff like that. If you show him you care by being mad he wins. Have your sad time behind closed doors. Let him believe you are happy and have moved on. He'll be like what? Fake it until you make it. In time the hurt will fade and you will feel ridiculous for wasting your precious time and emotions on him.0
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