I have just started to see this guy (2 dates now) and 1st date he paid for our lunch and we went out last night for dinner and a movie and the bill came, he reached for his wallet, and I just did the 'effort to be like oh are you sure?' cause I feel i should at least offer but I didn't expect him to say 'can you split the check' to the server. I don't expect the guy to pay for everything especially once we are in a relationship, but it is attractive to me when he does like take care of me in that way. I don't know if I want a third date, cause it's not something you can just bring up. Is there a way that I can or should I just leave it and move on?
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I was going to say until you're older and looking for a more serious relationship, don't worry about it. But now that I see your age bracket, I have to say, I'm a bit surprised. I thought older guys (not "older", but at least older than me) would offer to pay the entire check until the relationship became more familiar. You're not being entitled. There are women, myself included, who expect a guy to take somewhat of a lead in the relationship. If he's already expecting you to go dutch the second date, he's likely not the guy you're looking for.1