So I just got in a LDR with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago I told my friends about him and they started telling me that he sounds like a f*ckboy and I kept telling him that he isn't cause he would never do anything like that cause he says he wants to do it when the time is right. Well one night I texted him how cold I was starting to feel because of the weather and then he said well what clothes are you wearing right now? And I told him I was wearing a shirt and some shorts and he was then shown as offline so for some reason I said "do you only love me for my body and not for who I am?" And then an hour later he said "why would you say that? That hurts me I only asked that because if you were not wearing long clothes then no wonder you are cold" so I apologized and he forgave me. Another time he texted me at 2:20 am in the morning saying "hey you :)" and it reminded me of what my friend said that a f*ckboy would text late at night and I texted him "what do you want?" And he said "what do you mean? I just wanted to text you because I missed you :(" and so I apologized again and even videochatted him to make him feel better. Last night I told him how it felt so cold outside so my room was super cold and he asked "what's your t-shirt size baby? :)" and I thought he was thinking about my boobs cause they seem apparent with my shirt size and so I texted "😕 who cares about my body why can't you just love me for who I am!" And again he was offline so I got so mad and started saying stuff like "do you even really love me?" And today he texted "babe my phone died and I went to bed and I just wanted to know so I could see if one of my hoodies would fit you and it would be for Christmas when I would see you :/" and I apologized again and he said " :/ no sorry for ever asking you. I got to go" I cried and texted him that I'm sorry and that I love him and explained about my friends and how they made me worry and asked if he still loves me and he read the message but didn't respond.
Most Helpful Guy
Goddamn ! Honestly, you sound like you are more trouble than you are worth. Maybe I would give you another chance but I would definitely be asking myself if this is worth it. Stop twisting everything he says and turn it into drama. Also, so what if he's trying to get you to dirty talk? If it was the only thing he'd talk about, I could understand, but you are pushing the envelope.0
Most Helpful Girl
Wow. Are you joking or are you really an idiot?
Reality check: you're dating the guy for two weeks, long distance relationship.
Despite everything you hear (even from your friends) and are used to in society (sextexting?), in relationships you HAVE to believe the other person has no second intentions, I. e. You've to learn to trust them.
This is not about your friends. If you think the guy is a fuckboy, why would you be with him? And maybe he's only looking for a nice decent girl, so why is he stuck with someone who accuses him of being a sexual predator? Seriously...
Try to believe in the guy and the relationship, don't think about you or your body all the time. LDR are difficult, but there's no reason not to work if you want it too.
It's normal to ask what you're wearing when someone tells you they're cold.
Real life is not porn and not everything is about sex. Focus on something else.0