I've recently reached that age where a lot of girls are getting kinda desperate to settle down with someone. The problem is that I am running into a lot of girls that are really pushy with me.
Last week I gave a girl my number, and she has been texting me literally all day everyday. Good morning/good night texts/flirty texts, etc. It's only been 1 week and I feel like I'm in a relationship...
I went on a coffee date with her yesterday but it was literally just because I was bored. I'm kind of regretting my decision now.
I just feel like being filled in on every detail of her life/what she's doing/good morning/night texts after 1 week is too soon. Am I right to think that someone is wrong here?
She's really cute and all but I really don't care much about being in relationships. Should I keep seeing her or should I tell her to fuck off?
Help! Girl is moving way too fast for me?
What Girls Said 3
Maybe try being up front with the girls you're dating, tell them you're not looking for forever. And while you're complaining about her intensity, couldn't it just be that you made a good impression and she's communicating so much because she likes you? Personally, when I like someone, I like to let them know that I do by showing my interest in their day to day life and showing that they're on my mind. Just a side note, I'm not in some desperate push for a long-term relationship, idgaf about a ring or the fact that I'm older and single.0
Tell her to f*** off isn't the right words. If you're not interested you should definitely tell her that..., when you meet the right girl, you know it everything will be smooth and it won't matter that you just met her... it'll feel right when you receive those good mornings and good night text0
Just say politely that things are going to fast and you aren't interested in her like that at the moment0
What Guys Said 7
I was in the same position recently and I learned a good lesson from it. Just cut things off now because she's gonna love you more and more as you grow to dislike and finally hate her and it's gonna make the breakup that much more difficult.
Talk to her, tell her why it's happening and wish her luck with the next guy. Don't make this worse than it has to be by staying with someone you don't want to be with.0
I feel ya. I've been through this a lot. I think you should try and set boundaries. It's necessary for every one to have a little time alone. Don't feel bad about, it's a basic necessity.1
Tell her to slow it down. Just be polite about it. If she can't handle it then ditch her.
My issue is, either the girl is very clingy or flaky, no happy medium.0
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