So I went on my first and last (haha) "date" with this guy. He just wanted to go back to his place and I said ok. Well as you are guessing he just wanted to have sex as I should have seen coming. So it went pretty far like almost all the way but when it came to actual sex I just couldn't do it. I am a virgin (he didn't know beforehand) and honestly didn't trust him yet. I just met him not too long ago lol. Then he told me to leave. He said oh we will meet up again blah blah and I was like whatever lol. I said to myself I would not contact him until he contacted me. About three days later he followed me on snapchat and sent a pic of himself saying hi to me and I sent one back and then he unfollowed me. Obviously he is a jerk but why would a guy do this lol?
Most Helpful Guy
You seriously need to ask? Did your mom or dad not warn you about most men? I'm forty now but from about nineteen until twenty-three I was after only one thing. You did the right thing. Make the dude earn it. No matter what Pop culture TV and magazines tell you, your feminity has tremendous worth and you shouldn't waste it just to feel like you belong to a group of sluts. There is nothing wrong with sluts, they just make their choices and have to live with them. I'll say again, I was not a nice man. Not mean but a bit of an a-hole. As a husband and father I now see the virtue of and the biological aspects of sex. It belongs to you, the woman. You own this awesome power of restraint for the most meaningful interaction between the sexes or an eventful moment of regret and consequences. Or you can use it as a play thing (not recommended) There are good men out there but also very smooth talking salesmen who value your body as much as a chicken dinner. Sorry to say I used to be somewhere in between. Get to know the guy, tell him maybe if, when you're ready. Waiting til marriage is hard but so worth it amongst the few I know who've waited. Big picture: the best sex you could ever have with the cutest guy is nothing but a memory when he's gone. That's not worth much especially when you lay dying at 90. A strong family built on years with a good man for a husband. Proper vetting is the key. Go out, have fun, have arguments, find out his weaknesses and his fears, meet his father, etc
You did 100 percent good by buggin out of there. It's hard to find food ones but I assure you, they're out there. Of my old group, myself and two others were pricks towards women. Three of them were good boys. You just can't tell in a few days time. I'd say the bad stuff should expose itself within about ten dates unless he's a real psycho. Just tell the next one that your dad will pull his throat out through his butt if he mistreats you. People think that's a joke. It could happen😎
Most Helpful Girl
Just one rule of dating, come back to my place = sex
Doesn't matter, whether they're a guy or a woman, it's pretty universal.
I think this is normal behavior, doesn't make it right, nor him not an idiot but it's pretty standard.
Him kicking you out, that's ridiculous, but I guess he was mad at the mixed signals you sent him, chalk this down to experience.
Put your safety first, never go back to someone else's house unless you know then with and trust then anyway.
Hope you meet someone decent soon.0