Guys: to you does your girlfriend have an obligation to have sex with you and if she doesn't is that a good reason to break up with her?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. The point of a relationship is sharing life together in order to make both partner's lives better. Sex is a pretty big deal, in this regard. In this implicit social contract that you sign with another person, both of you have separate ideas on what a "relationship" entails.
Since "no sex" is pretty much never on an *implicit* social contract, it would be unfair of someone to go into a relationship without *clarifying* what they want out of the relationship. Really, everyone should do this, anyway. But especially with something like "no sex ever".
I would view it as full rights to break up with the partner if s/he did not ever want to have sex. Or didn't want to have sex for a long, long time. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. It definitely makes women get closer to the man; and it can make a man get closer to the woman.
I also want to clarify an important difference. An "obligation" does not mean you are *required* to do something. For instance, you are *obligated* to go to work every day. But nothing is stopping you from not going into work. You will get fired, but that doesn't take away your ability to choose what you do.0
Most Helpful Girl
I hope not, but keep in mind that if the sex drive is different you might not be that compatible, you can't like say no everytime0