Would you try a relationship knowing they have a baby with someone else?

I met this guy about a year ago and we've talked off and on since then. He has a baby with another lady and she is seeing someone else. He said she cheated and they will never get back together. I feel so comfortable with him when we are together almost like I've known him forever. He's an amazing dad to his little girl. He is 30 and I am 20. The age doesn't bother me and neither does the baby really. No one is ever 100% ready to be a parent but I am willing to try to make things work out with him if there's any possible way. What is everyone's opinion? What would you do?


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  • would i date a single mother? sure


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  • Sigh. I've broken my "never date a man with a kid" rule.

    I have. Will I again? Extremely unlikely. I've made it this far with no babies and would like to find a man who has done the same.

    The last man I dated has a 6 (he said she's 7 this month) old little girl.

    Admittedly, I didn't find out until after talking and falling for him.

    * Knowing how things ended, I'd do it all over again and accept his child.

    - - - So, I'd prefer not to and it used to be a deal breaker. But, there have been 2 really cool men that became exceptions to my rule.

    So yes, I would again. Prefer not to, REALLY would rather not.


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