I am talking to two guys that I actually met in real life first several years ago, but reconnected with them both on bumble about two weeks ago (they don't know each other...). Both of them having been texting me every day but it seems like they don't actually want to meet because its been a little while and neither of them discussed it?
How long do you wait to ask someone on a date when you meet online?
What Guys Said 15
I have learned you that you only chat one day then I ask her to meet. Early on in my online dating experience I would chat for days and in 1 case, due to bad schedules, we had to wait almost 2 weeks. It is awesome when texting and chatting but we meet and nothing...
It is a waste of time chatting too long. One or two days then if your still interested you need to meet. Otherwise, move on. If all you want to do is text and chat your not really interested in dating.0
Wait. You're talking to 2 guys at once? 😳1
Depends on where they are. I have met girls who live an hour or more away, and so it is more difficult to arrange a meeting for those cases. For people who are closer, it may be weeks, if we both are busy, or a few days, if they are up for it. I had one girl who got pissed and blocked me after we wrote a few times, as I kept putting off meeting her; I had a (yes, physical) scar I wanted to heal first.0
I would prob try and talk to them for a couple days and then ask her out but I don't know. Then again I'm really bad with girls so who knows how long you should wait0
Try to do it within the first week, definitely by the end of the second.0
Since I'm 32, I tend to ask someone on a date pretty quickly - within the first few days/weeks.0
3 messages tops.0
Depends on distance, how far we are but I am quickie.0
In a week perhaps..0
After at least one week of chatting and knowing details of each other0
The burden that still falls on the guys shoulders0
Maybe after a month0
Isn't bumble the thing where girls initiate shit? That might be the main factor here...
If you know them and they aren't sketchy, just do it?
I've met with girls the next day (rarely). Sometimes they bring up texting/hanging out but I don't use bumble.1
Depends how the conversation is going... I am cool with waiting a week, but I try to ask within a day or two.
I find a lot of girls are not on these sites to meet people, and asking them out right away saves time.
You should mention that you want to meet up, so you know your answer.1
What Girls Said 5
I always Believe this myself when They... Don't actually want to meet...
However, many Online like to Spent the Time, in Getting to Know you better.
No harm in Throwing a Teasing Hint in Here, dear, of , "So... How about getting together for coffee?"
See where this Gets you, and if Joe still doesn't seem to Bite, eventually you Know... Something is not Right with this Jelly bean.
Good luck. xx0
Ask them on a date (coffee, drinks etc), if they say no, they aren't interested. I am pretty forward when it comes down to that kind of stuff, I dislike wasting my time.0
One month but meet at a public place always0
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