So I like eating at expensive restaurants. My plate costs around $15 and plus a drink.
He also took me clothes shopping once and I took advantage since he makes good money. I Spent over $800 in that one day on clothes and make up.
We also eat out almost every weekend.
He told me I was draining his wallet and then told me he was kidding.
I just don't see any point in him if he decides not to spend money on me anymore. I like to be treated like a queen when I'm dating. Should I break up with him? I couldn't believe he said that. We have been going out for 5 months.
2d To everyone who called me a gold digger: 1. I fell in love with him way before I knew he had money. 2. He offered to buy me whatever I wanted. I didn't force him to 3. He disrespected me by saying I was hurting his wallet even if it's true he should keep it to himself. 4. I am not a gold digger. 5. I'm a nice person but I like to have good things.
Save the "D" Day by Staying home with a Pizza that's 10 Bucks, and Get More on the Same Page, no Rage, with your SO. You both Need bonding, Not... Buying. Good luck and This advice is Free of Charge. xx
well you may be part of the problem but he also doesn't HAVE to spend the money. he could simply but his foot down and explain that he isn't going to drop $800 on clothes or go out for meals every weekend.
are you asking if you should break up with him because he is broke and can't spend money on you? I think you need to re-evaluate what is important in relationships otherwise you are going to find that you push many potentially great guys away
I remember breaking up with a girl who had the same attitude - she even jokingly asked how my bank account was doing halfway through our third date. She had not contributed anything apart from showing up, and was also making me wait for sex. With that comment I realized I was being lead up the garden path.
hmm see this is weird to me.. mostly its the woman who spends money on me lol! but ya thats not expensive for dinner and $800 ain't bad if its not the norm... That being said! you is a gold digga which ain't a awful thing you just need to work at making it look like your not =P
800 holy crap. You really let yourself go then. If it really is draining he shouldn't spoil you as much when shopping, and when eating out each pays their own meal? Or just don't go out to eat everytime
Hahahaha new level of gold digger... Take you entitled asshole somewhere else please... And you breaking up with anyone in this whole world is only gonna be a good thing for the person who will be dumped by you. So please fuck off
If it isn't real its funny, but if its real it is even more funnier. You asked us am i expensive and you answerd yourself. If i was him. I wouldn't spoil you and tell to you, if you want to contiue like this it won't work etc.
You should definitely break up with him. Definitely.
Then you should get a job and buy your own damn $15 meal. What kind of person spends $800 of someone else's money when you've been dating for 5 months? He's an idiot for allowing it, but it's disgusting you accepted it. Prostitutes accept less. Grow up
Put it this way love. For our one year anniversary I was upset my boyfriend spent £50 on me.
You clearly don't care about him as a person so break up with him and find a nice old man who you can drain every penny for. Why bother working yourself or spending your own money? It would make you poor!
Okay, well, first, $15 is not an expensive restaurant. That's like... a meal at Olive Garden with an appetizer so... yeah.
Second, I'm having a hard time believing that an 18 year old has a girlfriend who spends $800 of his cash on herself and let's it happen. This sounds like a troll question.
And if it's not a troll question, I surprised he hasn't dumped you yet. You sound selfish, spoiled, and entitled, and you want to be treated like a queen with an attitude of a peasant and it's not cute.
I hope he dumps you, that's fucked up. He spent $800 on you alone with clothes and Makeup and you want to break up with him? It's no wonder men don't want to date women today, because of little bitches like you. You good for nothing good digging whore. #sorrynotsorry
Do you still live at home? Do you have a job? Don't go spending other peoples money until you understand how much effort it takes to earn it. He must be doing really well and you don't appreciate it, you abuse it. I work and study and barely make enough to live in a house with 2 other friends where I'm paying far less rent than them. Sometimes I can't even afford to have lunch usually if I need new clothes I have to make a sacrifice on food or on something else. Just grow up holy shit.
Yes you are, Your also incredibly selfish. You literally just said that he is of "no use" to you unless he spends money on your. You are the exact definition of a gold digger... Really and truly I just find it sad. You need to learn how to stop being so materialistic there are so many bigger things in this world than you.
I really feel you're being spoilt by him. You don't need to be treated like a queen. Grow up.
There is no one to blame but himself for putting up with you.
You're the text book definition of a gold digger. Make your own money and spend it on yourself. Why does he have to pay for you? A little gift here or there is absolutely fine but spending 800$ on a random girl is too much if you are not doing the same for him or if he isn't ridiculously rich.
You need to be worth something to be treated nice, your post clearly shows you ain't worth shit