One of his complaints was that I never do anything nice for him and that no matter what he does for me, I never reciprocate. But the problem that I'm having is that everything I'm good at, he's not interested in. I'm a baker and love cakes and cookies and brownies and it's what I'm good at. However, he doesn't eat sugar. He just told me if I made him something he won't eat it. I told him that doesn't make any sense because when his family makes things with sugar in it, he eats it. Same with co-workers. And my friend and I are supposed to make him and her boyfriend dinner on Monday and he said if it has sugar in it he'll eat. So I asked him what's the difference between her making something with sugar in it and me and he said that I know he doesn't eat sugar. I told him she knows, too, and so does her boyfriend (because I complain about it all the time). Then he said that he's not eating anything I make.
It's just demoralizing that I'm not good at a lot of things and the one thing I'm good at that I'm proud of he just shits on all the time. I'm not asking him to eat a whole cake or something. The only other thing I'm good at is writing and you can't really do much with that except maybe write a poem, but I want to do something really nice and I don't know what else to do. Any one have any ideas of anything nice I can do?
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Maybe he doesn't like the way you cook sugary foods but he doesn't admit it.0