Him and I are long term friends, for 10 years. He used to have feelings for me when we were younger, but I didn't feel the same. Now I do, I totally do. I've been in love with him for a year, but he has a girlfriend of 2 years now. He doesn't know about my feelings and I'm absolutely not planning to do or say anything until he is single again. It's not like I'm suffering or anything, I'm actually very happy if he's happy, he means a lot to me and his girlfriend is great. But it's true, I can't shake my feelings off about him. I'm dating and all, but somehow my heart always goes back to him and to that time when I was a stupid brat who rejected him.
Most Helpful Guy
I'd still be friends but I'll do what I can to move on. no point in waiting around. you either move on, or not wait and tell him straight up how you feel and see what happens (like in those cheesy romance films) lol3
Most Helpful Girl
It's really up to you, if you feel like you can maintain your friendship without feeling sad/upset and okay then sure be their friend but make sure you're aware of how you're acting for i. e. not displaying emotions of jealousy when he's talking about her taking her places etc.2