It's all my fault, I know. But last month I hurt my friend really badly, emotionally. I think she had a crush on me but I told her I liked someone else (she never told me she liked me, she just stopped being her normal self to me). She began to ignore me suddenly, stopped teasing me, and whenever she talked to me it was a very shy, submissive voice, and she playfully poked me. But she never really teased me as much as she did last year.
So anyways, for the last 3 weeks, I could feel my feelings developing for her, and I thought about telling her but I decided not to. Instead, without my permission, my friends did it for me. They said she sounded amazed that I even liked her, but she didn't say no, fortunately. So yesterday, she confronted me about it. I told her I didn't know I felt about her, and she told me to let her know when I do.
Now she's ignoring me just like she was when I told her I liked someone else. I'm not sure the reason why, but I pretty sure it has to do with the fact that I haven't told her I actually liked her, and that she probably thinks I'm joking.
Girls, if you were in this situation, would you think I'm joking?
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- No40% (4)
Most Helpful Girl
I put yes but I would have put other if it was an option. She's not as friendly cause yes, you hurt her feeling when you liked someone else.
Are you SURE you like her or is this just because she is ignoring you now? Like really really sure before you have the potential to crush her heart.
Fact of the matter is she confronted you about it cause she wanted it to be yes. But you said "I don't know" which is honestly the worst thing you could say 😂 Obviously you know but you were nervous! She's acting like that again because now you have rejected her a second time.
Go freaking ask her out pronto... like as in yesterday ask her out ☺️1
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