I have never had an actual girlfriend other than an awkward pseudorelationship that lasted a week. And she turned out to be a lesbian. For real.
But it hurts me to know a girl has had her first love, especially when she was a teen at the time.
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You have to keep looking and pursuing. But don't be desperate either. You know what you want and need in a person. But you won't find that at no bar or club. Go hangout at the park or public place somewhere. Do other things than just seeking out a girlfriend. Make sure you have other goals, like marriage, kids, a dream, things like that and pursue them the best way you can. Never sell out pipe dreams, or else you will get her hopes up and is leading her on.0