Since 8th grade, I've had this crush on this girl I like and I continued to have a crush on her through high school and still do today. He over I could never get her attention. So what are the 5 things tht i can do to get her attention the next I see her?
What are the 5 main things a woman look for in a man?
Most Helpful Girl
I think you will get a lot of answer like kindess, humor , loyalty... that kind of stuff from girls. And while all of that is true, I think guys who are having trouble are not necessarily having trouble being kind or loyal. They have trouble bringing that point across in a short conversation or a date.
Realistically I think initially girls are looking for 3 things
- physical attraction
- someone they enjoy spending time with
- someone they feel safe with
Physical attraction needs not commentary.
Someone they enjoy spending time with, sounds obvious but really that's what people mean when they say humor or bright personality. It's not that they want you to do a comedy piece, they just want to enjoy themselves while with you. Do something fun on your date, have some interesting stories perpared that you can tell her, ask good, fun questions about her hobbies
And then someone they feel safe with, that's where things like loyalty come in. But realistically you can't get the fact that you're loyal as a dog across in a short conversation. It's really more about feeling safe with you. It's cold outside, offer her your jacket, make decision on where to go and what to do, suggest things to get to eat or drink, take her hand when you're in a busy place, walk her home...3
Most Helpful Guy
Care, Mature, Love, Trust, Ambitiousness2