He's not socially awkward shy guy..
I met him online. He asked me out first. and on our first date he wasn't being shy at all he kissed me touched me.
However, when it comes to texting.. we both are not big texters and I think that makes it worse.
I asked him out on our second date because he wouldn't bother asking.
our third date, he asked me if I'm free, I said yes, but he wouldn't take it further n ask me out lol so I had to ask him if he wants to meet..
now. it's almost been a week since our last date. he sent me a text how I been doing,, but I doubt that he's going to ask me out.
He's a jealous type he used to text me if I'm going out on a date, how the date went (when I didn't even say that I'm going out on a date) he worried if I'm dating other guys, I told him I haven't seen anyone else but I don't think he's buying that. we have really great time together when we hang out and he's very caring and thoughtful. I know he likes our time together.
I have no problem taking initiative but I'm just wondering this is how shy guys would do.. or he's just not that interested?
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He's not shy he's just insecure, possibly has some phobia about being rejected if HE asked you out.
Clearly when he has you alone he is confident about everything. He seems fine when you initiate because that gives him confidence, if he wasn't interested he'd make excuses not to see you at all. Perhaps drop it in that he arranges the next date.0