I've seen it before girls that would rather be with a guy that treat them like crap that seem like their only interest is how quickly the can get the in bed vs a guy that would bend over backwards to make them feel special and treat them with respect. So is it the norm for girls to fall for the bad boys and ass holes rather than guys that respect them?
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Great question. I look back on my life to the male friends I have to this day... I have six very close male friends who back in the day, I could have dated any one of them, and never did. They were all "the nice guys", I went after those bad boys who were hot. But they would hurt you every time something better came along. I finally found a hot one who was caring, giving and smart... but those six nice guys are my friends to this day, and everyone of them have been divorced, marriage troubles, or never married at all... point being younger we choose for different reasons than we do when we are older. If today I could, I would DAT four out of the six that I never would have back then... so, I think our wants and needs totally change as we age, and the desire for " that look" isn't important any more.1
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